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Aug 18, 2011 - About Whatever    No Comments

Big Project Completed in Record Time

It only took 29 years but this little girl grew up & finally got to “work with Rick” :)

So you know me…I have been doing websites and graphic design for 16 years now. It’s not what I originally started out to do. For those who remember me when, I graduated high school with illusions of grandeur about wanting to be a filmmaker. I’d always had a fascination with the entertainment industry. Maybe it was my deep rooted desire to have talent good enough to up there on that stage or in front of the cameras but I guess stage fright got the best of me… oh, let’s be honest…it was self-doubt. I just didn’t think I could do it. Read more »

Summer Update!

Hi! Well, it’s been a SUPER busy summer! Really. I think I am ready for school to start just so I can get some breathing room. I have to say that I loved how my summer began. It may be no surprise to y’all but it started with a concert. w00t! Guess who? :)

Yup. I took that!

I scored some front row seats for this concert back in March. I was pretty excited about it. It’s been a year since Mom’s stroke and this concert would be her first “normal” thing (according to her) that she’d get to do since. I wasn’t sure how Mom would react to the loud music or how she’d be able to see. Her vision was severely impacted by the stroke and she was left blind from the tip of her nose down towards her feet and she has very little peripheral vision. Well, she did AWESOME! She loved every bit of it. Rick was a bit more risque at this show as it was in a gambling town and in a 21 and over venue. Kinda makes me wonder how he’ll be on the cruise. I am guessing pretty much the same. He didn’t stand on my sister’s chair this time and we didn’t get the bump & grind in our face either but I did manage to get a heck of a hand slap that managed to keep my fingers stinging for about 10 minutes after.

The fun continued later in July when I went out to California to visit with friends and to schmooze with some soap opera stars. But before I did that, I took a slight detour in Los Angeles and look who I ran into…

That’s right, people….

Rick was doing a book signing at the Barnes & Noble at The Grove in L.A. – which coincidentally was at the same mall as the American Girl store that I had promised Michaela I would take her to. No really… this was a TOTAL coincidence. True story!

So, that was at the beginning of my trip and really, the trip could have ended right there. I was satisfied. What a thrill… a 10 second thrill but whatever! :)

The rest of the week was spent with these guys:

General Hospital Fan Club Weekend was “OK”. I am highly critical though. Events such as this one that are done each year should be run like clockwork and not like it was someone’s first time. I was pretty disappointed in the level of professionalism by the event coordinators and their blatant efforts showing favoritism to certain groups of fans. It was pretty obvious and sad. I suppose some would call it sour grapes but not really. I wasn’t PERSONALLY wronged by this. It is just an observation as a first time fan club weekender. The amount of money spent to do this activity was obscene considering the value I received and I will likely not do it again. That being said, the actors themselves were gracious and kind they turned it on for the fans and that was nice to see. If I had to rate my experiences with the actors, I would say that my favorites to meet were Ronnie Marmo, Dominic Zamprogna and John J York. I had a MUCH better experience with Julie Berman than I did in December 2010 when I went out to do a house build for Habitat for Humanity. I don’t know if she was having a bad day or not but at the time I found her rude and stand offish. That was a total turn off then. But she was super cool at FCW and she was great with Michaela which mattered the most to me. As for who I didn’t care for??? Well… my daughter and I nicknamed Jason Thompson “The Bump on a Log”… Mr Personality he was not. Again, I don’t know if he was just having an off day or what. But that was THE big event and frankly he should have turned it on for the fans. He wasn’t engaged. The line to meet him and Kimberly was slower than cold tar. In hindsight I wouldn’t have stood in line to meet them. By the time I got through their line, Jonathan Jackson, Steve Burton and Maurice Bernard had already left the building. It was ridiculous. And their line wasn’t even that long either. Kinda still irks me that I wasted my time there.

So, let’s move on… :)

One of the activities that we got to do while we were there was a “tour” of the General Hospital set. I use that in “quotes” because I am not so sure it was a tour. I mean, I saw the Green Room and I saw the inside of a dressing room and I did stand around the set for a long time. But that was about it. I was fascinated watching the taping of the scenes and getting to see how big the sets really AREN’T. It was interesting to see that many of the sets are in storage and they move them to and fro when needed. The actual set area was quite small. We didn’t get to see wardrobe or make up or any of the many actor’s dressing rooms. And since I was a visitor it wasn’t like I could “demand it” either. I was originally told it’d be a 3 hour tour and that worked well for me because I had to pick up a friend a the airport but the majority of the tour we were left standing there with out an escort and wasn’t sure what to do. And before I knew it, I had to leave and the rest of the tour had to go on without us. I missed lunch with the actors and the goofing off on set with them after. In a word… I was disappointed. :( Had I known how it’d really be, I would have blocked out the entire day. Plain & simple the communication about how it really is wasn’t there. So, if you’re going to spend the big bucks to see the set, then be warned…be SUPER SUPER flexible with your time and expect the unexpected.

One of the main highlights of the trip was the play reading by Ronnie Marmo, Dominic Zamprogna, Julie Berman and Lisa LoCicero. I had created a poster for the play reading that Ronnie ended up really liking and he used it to auction off at his event to raise money for his theater group. I am proud to announce that the poster & script for the play reading fetched the highest bids of the night. Soap Opera Weekly just did a write up on the event and my poster was published in the August 16, 2011 edition:

How cool is THIS!?

So, that’s my summer so far. We’re into August and the plans for Michaela’s birthday party are in full swing. We’ll celebrate a few days before her actual birthday with hopefully several of her friends and many of her cousins. This year’s theme?? American Girl Luau. Yep. You heard that right. Expect pictures. LOTS of them.

Until then….

Jun 18, 2011 - About Whatever    No Comments

Let the Summer Fun Begin

The weather has finally warmed up although I wouldn’t categorize it as hot. It just doesn’t know what to do yet. It’s mid-June already and it’s starting to finally feel like summertime with Michaela being out of school and summertime activities beginning. I had been waiting for certain events to take place for what seems like forever but finally I’ve surpassed some milestones on the calendar.

First… Audra’s wedding… I was excited & nervous.. Excited because my best friend was finally tying the knot. Yay! Nervous because it gave me reason (although I should have had reason anyway) to lose some weight and at least make an attempt at being pretty… I was going for presentable. How’d I do?

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L-R (back): Robynn, Channel, Me, Andrea & Audra; L-R (front): Michaela & Ava

Second was the Rick Springfield concert in Wendover. Oh geez, Kris! Him? AGAIN?! Uh, yeah! So? Pfft! A girl can have a little fun no? Besides it was a night out with my sister & Mom and we had a ball. Mom said it was the first time in a long time that she got to feel “normal” and that was worth the price of admission right there… although the being with in INCHES of Rick didn’t hurt either. The part that DID hurt was his slapping my hand…it stung for a good 10 minutes. That boy needs to take it easy! :) Anyway, the concert was fabulous. LOVED IT! Below are pix that took with my trusty point-n-shoot. I was not very thrilled about using that camera but they wouldn’t let you bring the big ones in… I will try to not think about the pictures that I DIDN’T get. *sigh*

Next up is a week in California in July! Boy am I looking forward to this one… just to get away and play. Michaela & I leave in a month for Los Angeles for a little fun in the sun at Disneyland, the beach, museums and a little bit of Hollywood. We’ll mingle with some stars of General Hospital and even get to tour the set which I am really excited for because if rumors are true, there may not be a General Hospital set to visit this time next year. :(

We’ll get back from California and it will be time to finalize Michaela’s birthday party plans which, truth be told, are pretty much 99% done anyway. I can’t help it. I’m a planner. This year’s fiesta will be an American Girl Luau. That will be some fun stuff and a great way to round out the summer and get Michaela back to school the following week – she’s going in to the 4th grade. I can hardly believe it. Michaela did some great stuff this year at school. Third grade was definitely challenging and there were times when I thought she may not be cut out for a school that is so demanding. But she did it. She hunkered down and prove me wrong and proved to her teacher what a great student she is. I hope she continues to prove me wrong. She’s exceptional and I am very proud of her and the work she did at school this year.

We’ll finish up summer well but the planning doesn’t end there… just when I get used to having warm weather around we’ll lose it to fall and with my luck, an early winter. Please spare me. I am so ready to not live in the arctic anymore. I thought this winter would never end. The only saving grace is knowing that while people will be here freezing their butts off, Michaela and I will be jetting off to Miami to board a ship that will cruise to the Bahamas with RICK SPRINGFIELD! Aw, man? HIM!? Yup. And I couldn’t be more excited! Some sun, beaches and ocean breezes…oh, and my favorite guy, Rick to serenade me. Not too shabby of an early 40th birthday present if you ask me. You didn’t but this is my blog and I am going to write what I like. Thank you very much.

So that’s the update. That’s what I’ve been up to. I had big expectations with my last redesign that I would get back into blogging more but I haven’t done it. I am still suffering from the “not much to say” syndrome. I really don’t have a lot to say and that’s sad but the truth is that on a day to day basis things are pretty repetitious for me. I need to work on changing that. Ya got any ideas?

Mar 19, 2011 - About Whatever    No Comments

An update from the long lost blogger

6 months ago I blogged about what would have been my 13th wedding anniversary. Then I stopped blogging. I spent the last couple of months of 2010 being enveloped by a dark cloud mostly consisting of anger and depression. It really hit me on Mike’s birthday in November and then didn’t let up until after the 3rd anniversary of his death in January. Truth be told, life isn’t much different than it was 3 years ago. The only difference is that the sting of his passing isn’t as painful as it once was, I am no longer shocked to know that he’s gone and I don’t expect him to come walking through my door anytime soon. Honestly, my day to day living doesn’t include sitting here pining away for him. Part of that makes me sad because I want to hold on to that part of our marriage that was wonderful. But part of me is relieved. It’s exhausting to mourn. I’m tired of it. I am sick of being sad. And I’m so wanting to be over being mad at him.

So… I have been putting my energies elsewhere. I am still at home helping my mom. Her recovery from her stroke has been long and difficult – mostly for her, not me. It has taxed my patience though. There are times when I feel like I have none. But I have to remember she’s starting many things over from scratch. She is frustrated and angry too. It’s very hard for her to resign herself to the fact that things can’t get back to the way they were and she needs someone here to do the basic necessities because honestly she’d just forget to do it otherwise. So, I’m it. She gets her medicine, breakfast and her bathing from me. From wake up to lunchtime it’s just us. Then Dad comes home and takes over – just in time for me to pick up the kid from school and do a different kind of mothering.

Speaking of the kid, she’s grown – A LOT – this year. I hardly recognize the little girl anymore. She’s turning to such a young lady. She’ll be a flower girl in her first wedding this May and is very excited. This morning we went to a bridal store to pick out her dress and get it pinned for alterations. She’ll have shoes dyed to match too. I got a brief glimpse today of what it will be like to go prom shopping and someday, wedding dress shopping with her.

Let’s see…what else is new?? Well, the weight loss thing… I started on this journey in January of last year. I was doing really good until about Mid-May when Mom got sick. By that point I had dropped about 42lbs. And then things just came to a screeching halt. I stopped going to the gym as I couldn’t leave Mom alone for extended periods of time and finally by the time I could, I had gotten out of the habit. I was fortunate that I only gained back about 5lbs but I knew that when the new year got here again this year, I would really want to step it up again so I can at least reach my goal by this May. Will it happen? I dunno. As of this morning I am down about 11lbs since the first of the year. That’s good but not GREAT. I see-saw give or take about 2 lbs. The good news is that when the rubber band stops bouncing, I am usually lighter than I was before. It’s just not by a lot. But I’ll keep trying. I am drinking water and trying to not eat a lot and I am going to exercise. I HOPE that I can be where I want to be by the wedding in May. No. NOT MY WEDDING. Ugh! As if! Look at that picture above? That wedding the kid is in, I am in too but I am a bridesmaid and I want to look good in my dress. Seriously I didn’t even try this hard for my own wedding. Hmm.. wonder why that is? *shrug*

Okay so the big BIG news of this year is that I will be going on the Rick Springfield cruise in November. Hence the reason for the new look to the site. I intend on blogging from the ship (if I can get an internet connection) and sharing my experiences with the world (and the family back home). This is a mega-big deal for me so be happy for me! I am pretty excited and so is Michaela who will be my companion. Mommy & Daughter are going on an adventure and we couldn’t be more excited!

Between now and then, however I have a wedding in May, front row (!!!!) tickets for Rick Springfield in June, a trip to California with Michaela to visit with some friends in July, a possible trip to Mike’s family in August and Michaela’s 9th birthday to look forward to. It’s going to be a busy 2011.

 

Mar 12, 2011 - About Whatever    No Comments

Test Post

I know. It’s shocking to have anything posted from me. I haven’t posted in about 6 months. Not much to say. I’ll be revamping the site and trying to get back into the blog thing as time goes on. Right now I am doing a test post to see how the site looks with new look/feels that I am testing out.

Well, DUH!!

Ya know when you’re watching a movie and the main character is either desperately looking for something that is like RIGHT there in plain site or they’re sitting on a ticking time bomb and haven’t a clue and you’re sitting there yelling at the screen (as if they could hear you). “It’s RIGHT THERE, you dummy!!!” And then you start to wonder how anyone could be such an idiot and not see what’s right in front of their face.Yesterday I spent several hours compiling music for the big 50th Wedding Anniversary party that we’re having for my parents in August. I was working with literally over 1500 songs and trying to find certain ones that would do well for the dance soundtrack as Mom has told me that she wants to see people out there on the dance floor getting jiggy with it. I’d think of a song and then go see if I could buy it and it wasn’t long that I was just chipping away at the ol’ bank account. Every once in a while I would think of a really cool song and I’d be like DOH! Mike would so have this song! But I’m a moron and melted our harddrive. This is so depressing! This went on for hours… Then I started to wonder if he actually WOULD have the songs I was looking for and instinctively reached over and grabbed his silver iPod that sits on my alarm clock. When he died, I vowed to NEVER take what was on the iPod off. I was going to leave it exactly as he left it. I began to peruse the files that were on there and discovered that he had over 5000 songs on this iPod. Crap. I just found the Holy Grail. It’s all right here! But how am I going to retrieve it all??Google is my friend. I Googled instructions on how to pull music OFF of an iPod. As many are aware you hook an iPod up to a computer and iTunes launches and starts to synch. I didn’t want that to happen and was very paranoid about erasing Mike’s iPod as he had spent hours compiling his music library on it. I found a freeware program that will pull the music off and organize it according to the settings you give it. Not leaving anything to chance, I set up a new account on my computer and made sure to turn off the auto-synch in iTunes. For the first time in 2.5 years, Mike’s iPod was attached to a computer and I started up the program. About an hour later I had restored his library on a new external drive. I may have lost some photos but as for the music? I’m back in business….I have a feeling that maybe someone was watching a little movie called the Life of Kris and yelling at me to find this. What do YOU think?

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